Episodes

Kiss [ASMR version]

Jan. 26, 2020

The story of my first gay kiss, told in ASMR style.

Dating & Relationships Family Guests Mental Health Coming Out

Between (with Thom Wong)

Nov. 25, 2019

CONTENT WARNING: Talk of contemplating suicide, and general existential torment. The lovely, and Canadian, Thom Wong talks about his experiences of being between races, between sexualities, and possibly between genders.

Body Image Community Consent Queer Spaces

Signals

Nov. 17, 2019

[CONTENT WARNING: Some thoughts on groping, consent and other things like that.] Some thoughts on attraction, the signals we give out, and when it's ok to grope a stranger. (Spoiler: It's not. Ever.)

Body Image Guests

Violin (with Matthew Olshefski)

Nov. 10, 2019

A tale as old as time... All about drag queens, weird German talent shows, and doing what's necessary to make your dream happen. Even if that involves running across broken glass.

Activism Community Homophobia Social Media

Social

Nov. 3, 2019

Twitter, hipsters and The Big Secret about coffee. And beer. And wine.

Apps Community Guests Pride Queer Spaces

Science (with Dr. Alfredo Carpineti)

Oct. 27, 2019

When you find yourself unable to see, it is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.

Apps Body Image Consent Social Media

Flesh

Oct. 20, 2019

What do your nudes say about you? Is there an art to getting your willy out?

Coming Out Family Guests

Cat (with John Thomas)

Oct. 13, 2019

Exploring death, family and the choices we make with John Thomas, award-winning porn star, go-go dancer, and all-round lovely person.

Guest: John Thomas
Masculinity Homophobia Body Image

Man

Sept. 29, 2019

Are you man enough to get wet? Man enough to wear War Paint, look tough and never recycle?

Apps Dating & Relationships Guests

Gogo (with Ryan Logan)

Sept. 22, 2019

The importance of getting the last word, not checking your phone during sex, and remembering where you left your pants.

Guest: Ryan Logan
Dating & Relationships Masturbation Kink Apps

Tech

Sept. 15, 2019

From scanning your nethers to a cupboard full of dicks, here's a collection of thoughts about technology, sex, and the messy space where the two overlap.

Dating & Relationships Group Sex Guests Body Image

Awkward (with David Morgan)

Sept. 8, 2019

Hot guys, horny boyfriends and a chance to shag a porn star

Guest: David Morgan
Masculinity Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice Group Sex

Flop

Sept. 2, 2019

What to do when the flesh isn't as willing as you'd like?

Activism Community Guests Politics

Random (with Heezy Yang)

Aug. 18, 2019

The power of embracing the random.

Guest: Heezy Yang
Chemsex Dating & Relationships Group Sex Guests Masculinity

Twister (with Orson Deane)

Aug. 4, 2019

Adult Entertainment star Orson Deane talks us through the self-realisations that come after taking too much Viagra.

Guest: Orson Deane
Dating & Relationships Gross Life Hacks & Advice

Dealbreakers

July 28, 2019

Let's talk red flags. And butter. And Thundercats.

Apps Community Coming Out First Times Guests

Stranger (with Huw Lemmey)

July 21, 2019

Huw Lemmey talks about a Grindr hookup that went sideways, and what happened next.

Guest: Huw Lemmey
Coming Out Community Homophobia Schooldays

School

July 14, 2019

Back to school: Hidden trauma, horny teens, and hope.

Community Consent Dating & Relationships Group Sex Kink Guests

Check (with Adam Smith)

July 7, 2019

Checking in means more than just "Was it good for you?"

Guest: Adam Smith
Activism Community Pride Queer History

Shot

June 30, 2019

Who were Marsha P. Johnson and Storme Delaverie?

Coming Out Community First Times Guests

Divine (with Bradley Birkholz)

June 23, 2019

When your God wants you to have gay sex, it's best not to argue.

Activism Community Pride Queer History

Sandwich

June 16, 2019

Plant slime: Essential to the LGBTQ cause. Possibly.

Kink Apps Guests

Donkey (with Matt Baume)

June 9, 2019

Animal sex

Guest: Matt Baume