Episodes

Mug (with Demitri Wylde)

May 9, 2022

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me many times... You've got good D.

Sweat

April 25, 2022

The Probably True guide to Gay Saunas

Virgin (with Matthew Hodson)

April 11, 2022

Accidentally making a profit from doing The Sex

Dating & Relationships

Rules

April 4, 2022

Why use someone else's rules when you can change the game to suit you?

Elder (with George Hodson)

Jan. 1, 2022

A story of boarding school shenanigans, first love, and unusual stationery

Gifts

Dec. 24, 2021

The final part of the Love Languages miniseries

Time

Dec. 6, 2021

The Love Languages miniseries continues with Quality Time

Words

Nov. 23, 2021

Part 3 of the Love Languages miniseries: Words of Affirmation

Touch

Nov. 9, 2021

Part 2 of the Love Languages mini-series

Snog [Redux]

Nov. 1, 2021

Snogging, kissing and tongue-wrestling: A connoisseur's guide

Acts

Oct. 18, 2021

Acts of Service: First in a mini-series exploring love languages

Adopt (with Richard Orchard-Rowe)

Sept. 27, 2021

Adopting a child as LGBTQ parents

Enby

Sept. 22, 2021

Coming out as Non-Binary, but in a vague, slightly unsure way.

Hero (with Peter Tatchell)

July 21, 2021

What makes a hero? Spaceships? Unattainable moral superiority? A goatee? I consider this while speaking to fearless activist Peter Tatchell about the documentary of his life and work. You're welcome to disagree with my concl…

Break

June 8, 2021

Time to rest, relax, and breathe in. With the usual amazing planning that means this is happening during Pride Month.

Fungus (with Jason Decker)

May 18, 2021

[CONTENT WARNING: Hallucinogens & other drugs] After hearing my experiences in Smoke, filmmaker, avid listener and Sexual Adventurer Jason Decker wanted to share his experiences.

Island

May 10, 2021

What it means to be visibly queer when you're surrounded by boring people

Pink (with Nevo Zisin)

May 4, 2021

Navigating a life beyond the gender binary can be long and hard. But then, so's my d*ck. Author and Trans Activist Nevo Zisin shares their stories of coming out (often, just to keep people on their toes).

Mental Health

Reopening

April 26, 2021

As lockdown restrictions start to ease, can you lose your flirting mojo?

Spectacle (with Dr. Brynley Pearlstone)

April 19, 2021

A dodgy pickup line, a heavy prescription and an unexpected career in porn.

Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice Language Masculinity

Top

April 12, 2021

After the 'success' of the Bottom episode, it seemed only right to do one about topping.

Guests Coming Out

Drama (with Mike Wessells)

March 29, 2021

How to make coming out harder than necessary: a guide to keeping things interesting from the host of My Best Friend's Journal.

Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice

Bottom

March 22, 2021

The pitfalls of putting D in the B and how to avoid them: It's a bit like dancing. Sort of.

HIV Guests Chemsex

Tea (with Tom Hayes)

March 15, 2021

[CW: Substance abuse] Manners, men, and maybe don't listen to this at mealtime... When you're thinking with organs other than your brain, stupid stuff can happen.