Episodes

Pink (with Nevo Zisin)

May 4, 2021

Navigating a life beyond the gender binary can be long and hard. But then, so's my d*ck. Author and Trans Activist Nevo Zisin shares their stories of coming out (often, just to keep people on their toes).

Mental Health

Reopening

April 26, 2021

As lockdown restrictions start to ease, can you lose your flirting mojo?

Spectacle (with Dr. Brynley Pearlstone)

April 19, 2021

A dodgy pickup line, a heavy prescription and an unexpected career in porn.

Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice Language Masculinity

Top

April 12, 2021

After the 'success' of the Bottom episode, it seemed only right to do one about topping.

Guests Coming Out

Drama (with Mike Wessells)

March 29, 2021

How to make coming out harder than necessary: a guide to keeping things interesting from the host of My Best Friend's Journal.

Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice

Bottom

March 22, 2021

The pitfalls of putting D in the B and how to avoid them: It's a bit like dancing. Sort of.

HIV Guests Chemsex

Tea (with Tom Hayes)

March 15, 2021

[CW: Substance abuse] Manners, men, and maybe don't listen to this at mealtime... When you're thinking with organs other than your brain, stupid stuff can happen.

Mental Health Masturbation Sexual Health

Brain

March 8, 2021

'Tackling' the 'important' issues of queer lockdown. Or just talking about w*nking for a few minutes.

Dating & Relationships Guests Coming Out

Poly (with Martin Harding)

March 1, 2021

Is it possible to be an ethical slut? How can one have multiple boyfriends at the same time?

Mental Health Queer Spaces Homophobia

Code

Feb. 22, 2021

The postman sends me off on a bit of an existential spiral, there's stuff coming at my head, and I've got a wizard in my pants. Another normal week in lockdown.

Guests Body Image Masculinity Coming Out

Transformations (with Max Appenroth)

Feb. 15, 2021

Three different coming-outs, a traumatic experience in a sauna, and something that is DEFINITELY not a candle.

Mental Health Chemsex

Smoke

Feb. 8, 2021

Drugs: Just say maybe. Stories of why it's not great to mix the funparts and funny stuff.

Calendar Guests Kink

Festive (with Jay Malsky)

Dec. 13, 2020

A tale of strange vengeance served (very) cold; and a heartwarming (or at least, leg-warming) tale of trying something new.

Gross

Inside

Dec. 6, 2020

A dramatic rendition of some of the things that might possibly have gone through my head during sex.

HIV Mental Health Guests Family Sexual Health Coming Out

Positive (with Bryan, for World AIDS Day)

Nov. 30, 2020

"HIV is the best thing that's ever happened to me" is not a phrase you expect to hear

Guests Mental Health Dating & Relationships First Times University

Guilt (with Cody from Queeks)

Nov. 22, 2020

When our own actions haunt us, who can we turn to for forgiveness?

Life Hacks & Advice Queer Spaces Masturbation

Public

Nov. 15, 2020

A guide to DEFINITELY NOT having sex in public, because that's a NAUGHTY CRIME. And some thoughts on what to do if you decide you want to BREAK THE LAW, what it means to be community-minded when shagging in public, and why it can be seen as a bit ...

Family Guests Coming Out

Letter (with Leander)

Nov. 8, 2020

"What would your mum think?" is one of those questions thrown at porn stars and sex-workers in general. Neuroscientist and Person of Porn Leander decided to find out. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  Always interesting...