October 18, 2021


Acts of Service: First in a mini-series exploring love languages

September 27, 2021

Adopt (with Richard Orchard-Rowe)

Adopting a child as LGBTQ parents

September 22, 2021


Coming out as Non-Binary, but in a vague, slightly unsure way.

July 21, 2021

Hero (with Peter Tatchell)

What makes a hero? Spaceships? Unattainable moral superiority? A goatee? I consider this while speaking to fearless activist Peter Tatchell about the documentary of his life and work. You're welcome to disagree with my conclusion.

June 08, 2021


Time to rest, relax, and breathe in. With the usual amazing planning that means this is happening during Pride Month.

May 18, 2021

Fungus (with Jason Decker)

[CONTENT WARNING: Hallucinogens & other drugs] After hearing my experiences in Smoke, filmmaker, avid listener and Sexual Adventurer Jason Decker wanted to share his experiences.

May 10, 2021


What it means to be visibly queer when you're surrounded by boring people

May 04, 2021

Pink (with Nevo Zisin)

Navigating a life beyond the gender binary can be long and hard. But then, so's my d*ck. Author and Trans Activist Nevo Zisin shares their stories of coming out (often, just to keep people on their toes).

April 26, 2021


As lockdown restrictions start to ease, can you lose your flirting mojo?

Mental Health

April 19, 2021

Spectacle (with Dr. Brynley Pearlstone)

A dodgy pickup line, a heavy prescription and an unexpected career in porn.

April 12, 2021


After the 'success' of the Bottom episode, it seemed only right to do one about topping.

Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice Language Masculinity

March 29, 2021

Drama (with Mike Wessells)

How to make coming out harder than necessary: a guide to keeping things interesting from the host of My Best Friend's Journal.

Guests Coming Out

March 22, 2021


The pitfalls of putting D in the B and how to avoid them: It's a bit like dancing. Sort of.

Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice

March 15, 2021

Tea (with Tom Hayes)

[CW: Substance abuse] Manners, men, and maybe don't listen to this at mealtime... When you're thinking with organs other than your brain, stupid stuff can happen.

HIV Guests Chemsex

March 08, 2021


'Tackling' the 'important' issues of queer lockdown. Or just talking about w*nking for a few minutes.

Mental Health Masturbation Sexual Health

March 01, 2021

Poly (with Martin Harding)

Is it possible to be an ethical slut? How can one have multiple boyfriends at the same time?

Dating & Relationships Guests Coming Out

February 22, 2021


The postman sends me off on a bit of an existential spiral, there's stuff coming at my head, and I've got a wizard in my pants. Another normal week in lockdown.

Mental Health Queer Spaces Homophobia

February 15, 2021

Transformations (with Max Appenroth)

Three different coming-outs, a traumatic experience in a sauna, and something that is DEFINITELY not a candle.

Guests Body Image Masculinity Coming Out

February 08, 2021


Drugs: Just say maybe. Stories of why it's not great to mix the funparts and funny stuff.

Mental Health Chemsex

December 13, 2020

Festive (with Jay Malsky)

A tale of strange vengeance served (very) cold; and a heartwarming (or at least, leg-warming) tale of trying something new.

Calendar Guests Kink

December 06, 2020


A dramatic rendition of some of the things that might possibly have gone through my head during sex.


November 30, 2020

Positive (with Bryan, for World AIDS Day)

"HIV is the best thing that's ever happened to me" is not a phrase you expect to hear

HIV Mental Health Guests Family Sexual Health Coming Out

November 22, 2020

Guilt (with Cody from Queeks)

When our own actions haunt us, who can we turn to for forgiveness?

Guests Mental Health Dating & Relationships First Times University

November 15, 2020


A guide to DEFINITELY NOT having sex in public, because that's a NAUGHTY CRIME. And some thoughts on what to do if you decide you want to BREAK THE LAW, what it means to be community-minded when shagging in public, and why it can be seen as a bit ...

Life Hacks & Advice Queer Spaces Masturbation