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July 21, 2021
What makes a hero? Spaceships? Unattainable moral superiority? A goatee? I consider this while speaking to fearless activist Peter Tatchell about the documentary of his life and work. You're welcome to disagree with my conclusion.
June 08, 2021
Time to rest, relax, and breathe in. With the usual amazing planning that means this is happening during Pride Month.
May 18, 2021
[CONTENT WARNING: Hallucinogens & other drugs] After hearing my experiences in Smoke, filmmaker, avid listener and Sexual Adventurer Jason Decker wanted to share his experiences.
May 04, 2021
Navigating a life beyond the gender binary can be long and hard. But then, so's my d*ck. Author and Trans Activist Nevo Zisin shares their stories of coming out (often, just to keep people on their toes).
April 26, 2021
As lockdown restrictions start to ease, can you lose your flirting mojo?
Mental Health
April 19, 2021
A dodgy pickup line, a heavy prescription and an unexpected career in porn.
April 12, 2021
After the 'success' of the Bottom episode, it seemed only right to do one about topping.
Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice Language Masculinity
March 29, 2021
How to make coming out harder than necessary: a guide to keeping things interesting from the host of My Best Friend's Journal.
Guests Coming Out
March 22, 2021
The pitfalls of putting D in the B and how to avoid them: It's a bit like dancing. Sort of.
Dating & Relationships Life Hacks & Advice
March 15, 2021
[CW: Substance abuse] Manners, men, and maybe don't listen to this at mealtime... When you're thinking with organs other than your brain, stupid stuff can happen.
HIV Guests Chemsex
March 08, 2021
'Tackling' the 'important' issues of queer lockdown. Or just talking about w*nking for a few minutes.
Mental Health Masturbation Sexual Health
March 01, 2021
Is it possible to be an ethical slut? How can one have multiple boyfriends at the same time?
Dating & Relationships Guests Coming Out
February 22, 2021
The postman sends me off on a bit of an existential spiral, there's stuff coming at my head, and I've got a wizard in my pants. Another normal week in lockdown.
Mental Health Queer Spaces Homophobia
February 15, 2021
Three different coming-outs, a traumatic experience in a sauna, and something that is DEFINITELY not a candle.
Guests Body Image Masculinity Coming Out
February 08, 2021
Drugs: Just say maybe. Stories of why it's not great to mix the funparts and funny stuff.
Mental Health Chemsex
December 13, 2020
A tale of strange vengeance served (very) cold; and a heartwarming (or at least, leg-warming) tale of trying something new.
Calendar Guests Kink
November 30, 2020
"HIV is the best thing that's ever happened to me" is not a phrase you expect to hear
HIV Mental Health Guests Family Sexual Health Coming Out
November 22, 2020
When our own actions haunt us, who can we turn to for forgiveness?
Guests Mental Health Dating & Relationships First Times University
November 15, 2020
A guide to DEFINITELY NOT having sex in public, because that's a NAUGHTY CRIME. And some thoughts on what to do if you decide you want to BREAK THE LAW, what it means to be community-minded when shagging in public, and why it can be seen as a bit ...
Life Hacks & Advice Queer Spaces Masturbation