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April 27, 2025

How to enjoy funtimes more: Turn up the volume

Louder is better, but why? And how do you make sure they're not faking it? What do you do if you bring home a screamer? What noise-cancelling technology does every relationship need? These questions AND MORE 'answered' in this thrilling episode! — Probably True - Stories of queer life and…

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April 21, 2025

The power of learning to say 'no' | Matt Baume

Learning to listen to your gut takes time, practice, and accidentally starring in a very 'niche' sort of film. No, more niche than that. Like, REALLY specialised. If you've ever found yourself going along with something and REALLY wondering why you didn't just say 'no thanks!' and run away screaming,…

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April 16, 2025

What to do when things go bad

A reaction to the (nonsensical, transphobic) April 2025 Supreme Court Ruling on 'biological sex'. (Not my best work, but done is better than perfect.) — Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and…

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April 3, 2025

How to hook up with your 'straight' friend | Sean Hemeon on Probably True

As a teenager, Sean Hemeon had the hots for his best friend. The only problem? He's a good little Mormon boy and his best friend is straight. Join Sean as he discusses the life-changing power of rampant hormones, teenage drinking games, and well-placed gym equipment. Find out more about Sean's…

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March 26, 2025

How to save the world (even if you'd rather not)

Doing the right thing isn't easy, in fact it's often really quite annoying. It still needs doing, though. Even if it means getting bodily fluids all over your new hoodie. This episode includes all the stuff you need to be a Good Person: Swearing, poetry, care-bears, and more, different, bodily…

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March 4, 2025

The opposite of addiction (in collaboration with LGBT Foundation) | part 2

The second part of my collaboration with LGBT Foundation's Substance Abuse Recovery Team. For queer people struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, and addiction, the LGBT Foundation's Recovery Team can be literal lifesavers. In this episode, I talk more with two people who've benefitted from the service and chat to two…

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March 3, 2025

Loneliness, Addiction, and Recovery (with LGBT Foundation) | Pt 1

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Nov. 2, 2024

Tents, leather, and pup-play: A regular day on a Gay Campground

Sleeping under the stars, spending time in the countryside, wandering into a leather convention and getting surrounded by a pack of pups...? For Upton Rand, finding out about America's gay campgrounds and what goes on there was a revelation. One he decided to grab with both hands. And probably his…

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Oct. 27, 2024

The most important part of any seduction | Probably True podcast

Eye contact: essential for cruising, flirting, and romance. At least, according to the books. But how much is too much? Why do we look away when it happens accidentally? Join me as I torture a metaphor, miss out on a shower with a hottie, and generally explore one of those…

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Oct. 13, 2024

From Little Monster to Big Gay with Jordan Gonsalves | Probably True Podcast

Jordan Gonsalves loved Lady Gaga long before he loved guys, but through her music, very slow internet connections, and some free tickets to the Monsters Ball, he also learned to love himself. Jordan's queer podcast, But We Loved, is available on all good podcatchers and here: https://www.butweloved.com/ Jordan's Socials: instagram.com/jor_gonsalves…

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Oct. 6, 2024

A Common Sense Guide To Semen Retention | Probably True Podcast

BUY TICKETS FOR PROBABLY TRUE @ THE CHEERFUL EARFUL PODCAST FESTIVAL: https://cheerfulearful.podlifeevents.com/festival/probably-true-live-from-cheerful-earful-podcast-festival-20th-oct-tickets Does retaining semen improve your health? Can you increase testosterone by storing your seed? How can holding on to your jizz help you sleep? All these questions AND MORE answered in this week's Probably True podcast! — Probably…

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July 21, 2024

Everyone works better with a deadline | #comedy #datingapps #datingadvice #dating #tips #advice

A clip from 'F*CK ME, I'M OLD', performed at The Social Refuge Manchester, in June 2024

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July 17, 2024

Flirting with younger men | #standupcomedy #comedy #age #dating #flirting #tips #datingapps #grindr

A clip from 'F*CK ME, I'M OLD', River Scott's first solo show, performed at The Social Refuge Manchester, in June 2024.

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July 1, 2024

Dulux vs Twink

A clip from 'F**k Me, I'm Old' recorded live at Manchester Social Refuge, June 2024

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June 9, 2024

River Scott LIVE at The Social Refuge, Manchester

A clip from my most recent live gig, 'F*CK ME, I'M OLD', performed at The Social Refuge, Manchester on 5th June 2024.

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June 2, 2024

Not all gay men enjoy hookups | Todd Baratz

How do you have better sex with strangers? Send more nudes? Shower together? Get better at organising hookups? Sex therapist Todd Baretz shares the story of how sex with lots of random men helped him realise the truth: anonymous shags weren't for him, and the best way to get good…

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May 26, 2024

Everything TV taught me about Pride flags was wrong | Probably True Podcast

Will and Grace had some important messages about LGBTQ+for life in the 90s, but the queer world has moved on: Our thinking should, too. ----- Probably True - Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex. The repeatedly award-winning, slightly filthy storytelling project tackling LGBTQ issues in a fun and…

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May 19, 2024

The darker side of Gay Marriage | Probably True podcast with Karl Dunn

Fighting for equal marriage is one thing, but actually living happily ever after is quite another. Writer Karl Dunn shares his experiences of the side of equal marriage that we don't talk about: Divorce, and how it helped him find community and insights in some unlikely places. Get your copy…

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May 18, 2024

Janeway: Gender-transcending Starfleet captain | #startrek #queer #nerd #nonbinary #trans #iconic

When it comes to using gender-neutral honorifics, there's the right way, the wrong way, and the Janeway. Probably True - stories of queer life and even queer-er sex

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May 17, 2024

Non-gendered alternatives to 'Daddy' | #comedy #queer #lgbtq #funny #sexuality #trans #nonbinary

Probably True - stories of queer life and even queer-er sex

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May 16, 2024

Using your star sign as a defence in court | #astrology #science #starsigns #personalresponsibility

Your starsign is NOT a way to defend your crappy behaviour. Take responsibility for your actions. Probably True podcast - stories of queer life and even queer-er sex

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May 12, 2024

Are all queer people narcissists? | Sacha Coward

From Greek legends to Socialist vegetables via the world of instagram and teenage angst: Queer Historian Sacha Coward pops in for some impromptu therapy grounded in ideas of beauty, vanity, and big muscly dudes not wearing much. Pre-order your copy of Sacha's book, Queer As Folklore: https://unbound.com/books/queer-as-folklore — Probably True…

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May 9, 2024

The biggest (?) issue with wearing a dress | #nonbinary #enby #NB #comedy #shadows #swinging #lgbtq

Wanna get spicy? Probably True podcast - stories of queer life and even queer-er sex

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May 8, 2024

No more casual hookups | #lgbt #LGBTQ #Queer #culture #funny #comedy #teamgb #grindr #apps #dating

Hookup culture? Completed it, mate. Probably True podcast - stories of queer life and even queer-er sex

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