Coming Out Episodes

March 29, 2021

Drama (with Mike Wessells)

How to make coming out harder than necessary: a guide to keeping things interesting from the host of My Best Friend's Journal.

Guests Coming Out

March 01, 2021

Poly (with Martin Harding)

Is it possible to be an ethical slut? How can one have multiple boyfriends at the same time?

Dating & Relationships Guests Coming Out

February 15, 2021

Transformations (with Max Appenroth)

Three different coming-outs, a traumatic experience in a sauna, and something that is DEFINITELY not a candle.

Guests Body Image Masculinity Coming Out

November 30, 2020

Positive (with Bryan, for World AIDS Day)

"HIV is the best thing that's ever happened to me" is not a phrase you expect to hear

HIV Mental Health Guests Family Sexual Health Coming Out

November 08, 2020

Letter (with Leander)

"What would your mum think?" is one of those questions thrown at porn stars and sex-workers in general. Neuroscientist and Person of Porn Leander decided to find out. Stories of queer life and even queer-er sex.  Always interesting...

Family Guests Coming Out

November 25, 2019

Between (with Thom Wong)

CONTENT WARNING: Talk of contemplating suicide, and general existential torment. The lovely, and Canadian, Thom Wong talks about his experiences of being between races, between sexualities, and possibly between genders.

Dating & Relationships Family Guests Mental Health Coming Out

October 13, 2019

Cat (with John Thomas)

Exploring death, family and the choices we make with John Thomas, award-winning porn star, go-go dancer, and all-round lovely person.

Coming Out Family Guests

July 21, 2019

Stranger (with Huw Lemmey)

Huw Lemmey talks about a Grindr hookup that went sideways, and what happened next.

Apps Community Coming Out First Times Guests

July 14, 2019


Back to school: Hidden trauma, horny teens, and hope.

Coming Out Community Homophobia Schooldays

June 23, 2019

Divine (with Bradley Birkholz)

When your God wants you to have gay sex, it's best not to argue.

Coming Out Community First Times Guests

May 29, 2018


Growing up not talking about The Gays

Activism Coming Out Politics Queer History

May 07, 2017


A brief meditation on the desire to be 'one of the lads' by someone who can never be.

Masculinity Coming Out First Times University

December 07, 2016


Coming out isn't always easy, and it's not something that only happens once.

Family Coming Out Schooldays